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WE believe we are one of the first to coin and use the phrase GFE way back before there was much talk in the town.

Back in those days we respected providers and would never think of having unhealthy bareback oral or any kind of unhealthy sex. And this was before the HIV scares (which aren’t really much risk in heterosexual sexwork, but lots of other nasty STD's are). Many of us seek the GFE experience which means a real relationship for the moment with sincere women who enjoys the experience, not just mechanical sex.

Many of us prefer what you call crap to having a women take the health risks of unsafe sex which she may not even enjoy doing just to please that demand their selfish ways.

Fortunately we have seen a vast change in attitude about "intimacy crap" over the years. There would be the responses of being sick and tired of all my intimacy crap and real men just fxxk women and none of this intimacy nonsense.

But over the years that has drastically changed and zillions of men being more in tune with their more intimate side and find they enjoy it far more than being the big macho sex stud.

Often I have heard a provider reply to the question "Are you GFE" with "You mean you want me to nag you a lot?"

I also relate to what I refer as a "universal love", which many people just don't agree with our cultures definition of "love". GFE and "love" can be for the moment, it doesn't have to result in "falling in love" that many are so afraid of. It is more like standing in love of a unique spirit of a person and seeking to express this Universal love by sensual pleasure giving touch, sensuality and sexuality. But we are taught in our culture "love" has to be exclusive and possessing another.

In the GFE we seek, we especially enjoy caring high touch intimacy, stoking, massaging, holding her, caressing her trying to relate to her inner spirit via high tender touch not a body to have sex with. Combine this GFE intimacy and sensual sexuality and enjoy the experience.

While there are exceptions, very few providers offer this. "oh, I save all emotions for my boyfriend". This contrasts sharply with women from many other cultures that seem so much more open to sharing GFE and the type of intimacy we enjoy.

The reasons are quite obvious. Most other cultures don't have the repressive sexual attitudes that we do have in India. Often foreign women are much more naturally open, intimate and provide easy GFE which is often totally foreign to most sexworkers in India. There are of course exceptions of wonderful GFE providers in India

A GFE may or may not include kissing. If it doesn't happen on the first date, don't despair, it might happen on subsequent dates. If there is no genuine desire in me to give you a kiss, it will be mechanical. We always appreciate a client who lets her kiss him first before he kisses her.

GFE is rather indefinable. Everyone has a different idea about it. ."
"GFE is one thing to one person, another thing to another, but from experience, that you can share an hour (or most times less) with a very beautiful woman and feel totally ripped off afterwards, mainly due to a "get it over" attitude, which says, "Hurry up, pay me, and I'm outta here!!" And other markets with certain agencies or individual providers really suck, especially when you pay higher. The best GFE is the girl or woman who treats you in a relaxed, human (not mechanical) manner, and responds. She doesn't have to kiss, but many do, and safe sex is the rule, of course. But it is the willingness to do MORE than "lay" there and let the guy "get off".... It's a GFE like this with a gal who might be attractive, but not a total "knock-out", that sweetly lingers in the memory. The message to providers should be...treat us the most humanly way possible, get into it, and leave an impression. That's the way to do it! "

Personally, I get the most pleasure out of sex when we both have a good time. I really try to turn the girl on and please her. Stroking, cuddling, kissing is all part of that, and it's surely unnatural to preserve complete emotional detachment while giving this the full attention which it deserves.

Maybe it's a question of age. Over 50, have had several GirlFriendss. Don’t think going to get lovesick over a sex affair. For a young man, it might be different. Yes, there is some danger of getting hooked; these girls are not called "hookers" for nothing. But treating a girl like some kind of animated rubber doll misses most of the point of making love."

So different men seek different type of providers, hot and nasty or more intimacy and that hard to define intangible GFE.

Seeking a GFE, is an intimate, mutually satisfying encounter on a human rather than commercial level.