What Most Men Don't Realize About Women

Have you ever found yourself wondering just exactly what women want from men?

What Most Men Don't Realize About Women

Women often don't know what they really like in a guy. Women are much more susptible to their emotions than men and it's the man who understands how to use this knowledge that has the advantage with women.

It isn't has hard to win the heart of a woman as most men believe. What makes it hard is when guys do things for women that guys would like, but don't create an emotional moment with a woman. They often focus simply on being Romantic or charming. While women do love those aspects, those alone aren't enough. What women want is a man that makes them feel special and the best way to do that is...
Know what you want and consistantly pursue it

So many men give up so easily simply because a woman didn't respond exactly they way they hoped when they approached her. Many husbands retreat emotionally because their wife isn't as playful as she was when they first date. It doesn't have to be that way. Your relationship can be as wonderful have you hoped.

You may not realize this but Girls really are easy to please. They tell you what they want but the problem is that what it takes changes depending on their mood.

Please don't get frustrated with girls. They can’t help being so emotional. In fact, it's the reasons you like girls so much,

But girls love you even more if you were willing to do a few things just be a bit different than you've been doing them so far.

You palms are sweating. Your heart is pounding. You dread their arrival - those uncomfortable silences and awkward moments of first and even second dates (or when you are even approaching her for the very first time to ask us out).

You know that you like this girl and want to know everything you can about her, but that desire doesn’t seem to make its way out of your mouth. What is interesting is that asking questions shows that you are truly interested in her, and that’s what women want from men at the end of the day. But still, you’re nervous,

Is there any right or wrong questions to ask a girl during these early days?  These five questions to ask a date are bound to generate a better response and work in your favor, as long as you can get the delivery timed right.

Ask a girl about her hobbies and passions first. This is usually neutral territory and will give you a clue as to what else you can ask later. You want the questions you ask to lead to more questions later… What does she like to do for fun? Is she into certain things or belong to certain clubs?  If you met through a mutual hobby or passion, ask her about that in particular and probe a little deeper into why she really enjoys it. Listen to how she talks about her passion and look for clues as to where the conversation can go from there.
One of the most important questions to ask a girl is about her dreams for the future. Don’t just come right out and say it though. Hinting at it in a roundabout way will work much better. Try not to sound like a job interviewer, “Where do you see yourself in five years?”  Be more like an interested friend and relate the future back to her hobby and passion. Always try to mention what she said previously as it shows you were listening.

If she shows that she is comfortable talking about them, ask about her family. This can get touchy, but in most cases family questions are good questions to ask girls. It’s a safe spot and will reveal an awful lot about her and any situations you may need to deal with if the relationship progresses.

If she has children, ask about them. Almost all women love to talk about their children, so be prepared for a barrage of answers in certain circumstances. Find out basics about the family, where they live, where did she grow up, etc. From there you can get into deeper discussions like do they all get along and who was her favorite relative.

It’s safe to ask a girl about her friends and her work in almost any situation. The danger is that you can appear too interested in each. You’re there with her, so don’t drill her about her best friend or any other people she hangs out with. Also, women don’t tend to put as much value in their position at work, so it helps not to look too eager to talk about that either.

One last idea for questions to ask a date is whether or not she has any questions about you. This is kind of like turning the tables, so be prepared to be honest and open with her. The idea is to make her feel in control of the conversation and let her know that you’re willing to talk about yourself, but only with prompting.

The early days in a relationship can be much smoother with these questions to ask a girl bantered about the dinner table. Always be calm, keep your sense of humor in tact and above all, be honest.

Women want men to:

Give sympathy, not solutions.

If you could change just one thing, do this: When she talks to you about a problem she's having, JUST LISTEN TO HER. DO NOT OFFER ADVICE! She just wants you to pay attention while she vents, and then she will FEEL BETTER! Just do it.

Cuddle more.

It's no good if the only time you are affectionate is when you want sex. You need to hold hands, hug, kiss, etc. on a regular basis or we feel neglected.
Be romantic.

If you treat your wife or GirlFriends like one of your buddies, she isn't going to be very happy. What women want from men are regular, small gestures of love to remind her how lucky she is to be with you.
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'Make love,' not just 'have sex.'

A woman needs to have an emotional connection with you in order to have great sex. If it's just wham bam and all you care about is getting off, she isn't going to be very happy.

Be neater.

Wives and GirlFriendss HATE, We repeat, HATE having to pick up after a man. It's just common courtesy to do things like put your dirty clothes in a hamper instead of leaving them on the floor for her to trip over, or wash some dishes, or put things away.

Be good with foreplay.

If you consider 5 minutes enough time for a good roll in the hay, you can be sure she is unsatisfied. Unless she's one of those (few) lucky women who can have a vaginal orgasm, she needs more time, and she needs you to be emotionally engaged with her.

A man who rarely or never shares his feelings is going to frustrate the woman he's with. Not only is it healthier for you to open up and express a little emotion, sharing your feelings with her will make her feel closer to you, which will make her happy.
Be able to have a conversation.

If we can't have a good conversation with you about things besides finances, kids, jobs, household concerns, etc. life is going to feel boring. Be willing to discuss things like movies, books, memories from childhood, your dreams, etc.

Have passion.

A man needs to feel passion for something in his life (besides the woman he loves!) or he will be dull, dull, and dull. It could be his career, a hobby, or a volunteer pursuit, but life together is so much better if you are living up to your potential and making yourself happy by doing something you love.
Be equal partners.

It's not enough to bring home your salary. Women need your emotional support, and they need you to be a co-parent, helping out every step of the way from changing diapers and midnight feeding (if you have kids) to equally dividing household chores. Say good-bye to your ideas of 'women’s' work and be willing to help with everything.When women get what they need and want from men, men win too because a happy woman means a happier home and quite possibly a better sex life! So, memorize this top 10 list so you know exactly what women want from men!